I came home today after visiting Ikea with my mum. I turned on the PC, and decided I would check my mail. So I did. This also meant I had to sign onto messenger. So I did. And suddenly Andreas was talking to me. He's one of the pastor's sons that I made friends with the last time I was in Sweden. He is a very nice guy. A few years older than me, but nevertheless a nice guy. So we had a general catch up; I discovered he had finally moved house and was in a different job, but missed his old one, I told him I was still visiting this summer. Then the conversation got random. And funny. Then awkward. Then funny again. Then random again. We spoke for a good two hours. We got on to the topic of food. He mentioned going out for Chinese. I asked if he went alone or with friends. He said 'Sarah, of course', like I was supposed to know who she was. Inwardly I sighed. Then inwardly I slapped myself. Then he said he was gonna have that bath that he had run for himself two hours earlier and wished me good night. Inwardly I sighed. Then inwardly I slapped myself. Then he went. And I sighed again. Does that make me an idiot? Does that mean that I was a) Hoping he was single? b) Missing him? You know I often think that I hope for too much. Meh.
On the brightside. My mum got chatting too his mum. Turns out Juliette Champion wrote him a LETTER. I know, I don't get it either. There is putting yourself out there and there is putting yourself OUT there. His mum also mentioned to my mum that Juliette Champion is currently not in his good books due to some issue. She finally mentioned that he and I are cool because we talk a lot. And that was nice. Though of course at the same time it doesn't actually mean anything. Oh well.
I need to pack. Night guys.
G. I. T.
xoxo
P.S. Is it bad that I miss him when he's gone?
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It is not bad! When else would you miss him? When he's right next to you? (Just kidding,c'mon you know you thought it was funny. I know I made you smile.)
Lol yeah I admit it, it did make me smile. How are you foreveryours528?
G. I. T.
xoxo
That's deep, but makes your mind wonder you know, It's crazy cause I swear I'm going through the same thing!
I wouldn't say it's "bad," no, but it doesn't necessarily mean anything, either. I was emailing with someone for almost 2 months, someone who was utterly fascinating, such that, before I knew it, I fell in love with him. When, occasionally, there'd be a day when I only got one short email, or none at all, I'd MISSSSSS him like nobody's business (as an INTJ, I rarely miss anybody; it's just not our way)! But let me tell you, he turned out to be, well, let's just be polite and say "not worth missing."
The human heart (and those confounded hormones!!!!) is very fickle; feelings are untrustworthy.
It's safer to let time reveal facts about the other person and about how the 2 of you really "blend" (or don't, as the case may be).
Just my 2 cents worth, since I don't really know you or him.
Thanks soultrawler. Your 2 cents worth was worth a whole hundred dollars =]
That happen sometimes... I wonder what would I do if I were you. Good that you did can control your self.
No harm in missing someone, as long as it doesn't take over your life. Too bad Andreas isn't single, though.
It is sad, though technically I am not really emotionally available either.
-SIGH-
Gossip, I don't think what I said was worthy of that kind of emphasis.
It's just a little "drip from the faucet." Say "hi" to your friend who has the "gourmet" tastes.
No harm at all in missing someone....miss all you want
I think we all miss people, so it's perfectly normal and there's nothing wrong with it if you don't let it drag you down and keep you from enjoying other people and things.
haha, andreas!